Tuesday, June 5, 2012

"A Scandal In Belgravia"

 (spoiler alert) 
FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE GOTTEN HOOKED on the BBC-Masterpiece production of "Sherlock", I don't need to explain how the hook got into me, nevermind how fast and deep. Unlikely I'd offer anything you haven't heard or experienced. You're either on this train or you're not (probably are), and you were onboard within the first few minutes of "A Study In Pink" -- right? If you haven't watched Season Two yet, skip this blog until you do. Suffice to say that any concern you may have that the Season Two opener, like so many television and motion picture productions in the past, badly handles bdsm themes is unwarranted. Really. For those of you who have no clue what I'm talking about, I strongly recommend you go look into this show yourself...now. 

(Sidenote: The mystery genre has never resonated with me, nor can I reasonably consider myself Sherlock Holmes literate. Doesn't matter. "Sherlock" rocks.) 

In my view, in "Belgravia", Moffat, Gatiss and company do it right. Naturally, when I'd heard that there was a "dominatrix" character in the show, I winced a bit inside, wondering if the character would be superficial, the usual device of titilation. Silly me, it's "Sherlock". Not only did this episode make it clear the series wasn't letting up in quality one bit and was densely packed and blazing, but there are real explorations of D/s dynamics in the story. As early word (that is, sometime in the year and a half between series) had it, Series Two digs deeper into the relationships, particular that of Sherlock and John. "Scandal In Belgravia" confirms that notion, delivering a lot more than I would have ever imagined. The D/s dynamics seem to run throughout. It's fascinating fun.

From the outset, who really seduced whom? Yes, Sherlock, initially dismissive of the lack of a "case", got interested when he saw that Adler was playing with power. Yes, he stepped to her first, but, really, which one was more nervous trying to dress for their first, uhm, scene? Plenty of seduction to go 'round. On the way to Adler's, we get this:

Sherlock: Punch me in the face. 

John: Punch you?

 Sherlock: Yes, punch me in the face! Didn’t you hear me? 

John: I always hear “punch me in the face” when you’re speaking, but it’s usually subtext. 

Sherlock and Irene Adler repeatedly powerplay each other. While that seems fairly standard for adversaries in a thriller, there are other character attributes making it more. Adler is a pro-domme, apparently 24/7 by disposition. Sherlock, true to Doyle's "Bohemia" original, is only ever truly engaged when wrangling with an intellectual challenge. Part of Irene's gaming is repeating her vulnerability -- her phone. That she took away Sherlock's phone while he was down and set that erotic text alert is one thing, but Sherlock leaving it on is quite another. Being beaten impresses, whets the appetite for more. A friend suggested to me that Sherlock and Irene both switch. Might be about right.

Something else I saw in the show is the idea that gender and sexuality are mutually exclusive. Sherlock's gender is male, Irene's is female, but their sexualities are different matters. Here's a touch on that:

John: ...for the record, if anyone out there still cares, I'm not actually gay. 

Irene: Well, I am. Look at us, both. 

Back in the beginning, in "A Study In Pink", at the cafe window table, we were given some boundaries:

Sherlock: John, I think you should know that I consider myself married to my work, and, while I'm flattered by your interest, I'm -- 

John: No -- 

Sherlock: -- not looking for any... 

John: No, I'm not asking, no...I'm just saying it's all fine. 

Sherlock: Good. Thank you. 

(By the way, I've got an idea for a new little drinking game for anybody doing marathon viewings of both series. Every time John says, "We're not a couple.")

It's simplistic, at best, I think, to conclude that Sherlock is either gay or neutered. As Irene Adler's behavior and statements -- and pulse rate -- suggest, things are sometimes far more complex. "Brainy is the new sexy," she says. Well, hardly new, but point made. It's what's in your head, not just your pelvis. From what I know, a good bdsm scene is a head trip. Likewise, D/s is largely mental. You might get wet, but it isn't necessary. I think Irene Adler, Sherlock, and a good many viewers of "A Scandal In Belgravia" got aroused, however way that personally works, by the power played -- exchanged -- between Irene and Sherlock. Television scenes? The whole story was a scene.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Darkness Falls again...

It's back, but in a different location and under new management. I know both and happen to think this will be a well run event. Have at it.

http://www.darknessfallstwo.org/
                      

Monday, March 26, 2012

vicarious thrills



Kinkfest was in Portland over the weekend. I didn't go but know a few people who did, so I'll have to settle for anecdotal reports. If I get any particularly nice details, I may put them here for all to experience at a safe, if a bit dull, distance. Maybe I'll carve out the time to go next year.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Count Boogie & Co. classic...

This really is a great piece of work and a lot of fun, regardless of your, uhm, experiences. If you haven't seen it yet, get on it:

Foot Fetish Guys Anti Creepy Training Video



Heck, it makes me want to go play at Threshold, these people are so cool.

dairy prices, oyster bars, the sex industry...

I've often said that there's plenty of money -- there is always plenty of money -- it's just that the distribution sucks. That's not a revelation, of course. It's just another way of saying how these things go. Still, distribution surprises me now and again anyway.

The State educational systems here are, at the mercy of all governmental budgets, various sorts of wrecks. The local transit authority is a travesty. The City is deep in it and looking for more ways to cut. It isn't as if people outside of computer industries (again) are finding more work opportunities than they can take, it isn't as if inflation continues unnoticed -- gawd, gallon of milk or a gallon of gas? You pick. -- but there does seem to be a lot of money getting tossed around lately into relatively, uhm, non-critical ways. For example, in my market, restaurants and cafes have been popping up like mushrooms. Really good mushrooms. The smell of venture capital is in the air... (again)

I've been told the pro domme biz is inherently a bit squirrely anyway. How it rises and falls relative to prevailing economic conditions isn't quite as clear as one might guess. I'm not sure porn has been hurting so much because of the larger economy as it has from technological shifts -- my euphemistic way of saying "theft". I'm wondering, does one need sexual satisfaction enough during economic hard times to be willing to budget some money for it anyway because, heck, times are hard and stress is high, or do those expenditures get put off until you feel truly flush? Are there even cut and dry answers for these kind of questions?

Does some of the dough from web company IPOs end up helping to pay the rent for porn studios? Does any of that speculative money, a bit of that revenue made from selling animated cows, a few bucks from ads placed to catch one of your "friends" interest go to pay for web servers streaming kink parties live -- ? Are the four or five new pricey restaurants in the 'hood a good sign for the sex industry? Really, are oysters good for the libido and the dungeon?

While this new bubble lasts, I rather hope so. Sure, I'd like to see some of it go to say, public transit, but it doesn't work that way. I don't have a car, but I'd still like to be able to afford milk. Likewise, I'm guessing there are one or two pro dommes around here that would like to be able pay what is probably already exhorbitant rent and still be able to afford, say, a half gallon of milk and a bus ride.

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Alice In Bondage Land

I've been the video camera operator for AliceInBondageLand.com for some time now. Recently, we started shooting in a High Definition format. The image quality improvement is pretty apparent.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

SF Citadel

The local public dungeon here in San Francisco, SF Citadel, has had to go through another change of location. Historically, this hasn't happened often, but, as I figure, it is San Francisco, one the hotbeds of occasional venture capital fueled real estate inflation. In any case, the Citadel has had to be on the move again. At first, it seemed to be working out reasonably well.

Suffice to say that, after a lot of resource expenditures, the in-process transition into a new location was aborted and the organization is again searching for a new facility site. If you or anyone else you know might have ideas for this, particularly those who are adept at navigation City real estate mazes, contact Phil and August via the Citadel.

http://sfcitadel.org/Main/CitMain.htm

Naturally, there is an SF Citadel group in FetLife.

New kink blog based in San Francisco

I had one of those "duh" moments today, so I've fired up this new blog for bdsm, kink and other things related however tangentially.

While this is based in the San Francisco kink scene, it won't be limited to the Bay Area. If you're in Santa Fe, Mito City, Wichita, Boston, Memphis...wherever...do feel free to post up, let me know about something interesting or just plain fun.

Yes, I am active in the local bdsm scene. I have friends in the kink community, I go to parties, all that IRL stuff. Also, I shoot bondage porn video for a domme producer/on-camera talent. More on all that later...